WE WILL NOT BE DIVIDED BY THE PERPETRATORS NO MATTER HOW HARD THEY TRY
I am so lucky to have a decent team that support me I have been asked to go to Holland to be part of a #CSA task force and left poor Jayne dealing with the defamation from David Scott of ukcolumn. A number of infiltrators have joined forces to attempt to turn victims/survivors against each other hiding under false names like Wildcat they pretend to be victims of CSA and reel the more vulnerable victims in for support. The idea is to cause disarray and cause in fighting amongst victims and survivors. That way they can be viewed as damaged and not able to adjust this works into the hands of abusers leaving victims that fell for their lies and false allegations alone and vulnerable. If they discredit the ability for a victim/ survivor or a support group and prevent them to become someone amazing then it breaks everyone down. They divide and conquer and destroy, unfortunately David Scott of UKcolumn took it one step further and has falsely reported about ShatterBoysuk. This only served to show the perpetrators in their true colours for e.g a follower who had always been supportive of Shatterboys and befriended Jayne called Brian turned and started attacking us publicly on Twitter as soon as the broadcast came out. We had only supported him but he clearly had ulterior motives. Even being a survivor some of the expert perpetrators are difficult to spot. Perpetrators will go to any lengths to gain a victims trust and are masters at manipulation. We have had tremendous support from victims and the public after the vicious onslaught of abuse I have suffered on Social media in the past few days purely because I support victims and I am a member of the Inquiry, Scott shows his annoyance of this quite clearly on the report. We have also ousted many of the perpetrators hiding behind fake identities. They are frightened at what is happening with the way survivors are becoming so much stronger and also the petition is gaining force now so they will be doing their utmost to bring that down. But I have work to do so I have gone to Holland building up our mutual aid group, lots of determination has got us to this point we are off to meet our colleagues in Amsterdam to be part of a #CSA Task force with @augusto_gomes1. Thank You
I decided to start Shatterboys after I had started to talk openly about the horrific abuse I had suffered as a child.
I realised although there were many support groups for woman their were only a handful for men. Also I had heard poor reports from victims and their parents regarding the larger charities like NSPCC. They said for all what they advertised that they did absolutely nothing when they contacted them and just said contact social services and that was it. I realised that there needed to be a charity that did exactly what it said on the tin so Shatter boys was born!
I try to educate the ignorant, none more so than Eric Bristow, who said we were not ‘Proper men’ I could be so ignorant to say that throwing darts at a board how ever good you are at it, hardly warrants an MBE!
A very proud moment when I was asked to join the panel for the National enquiry into child sexual abuse.